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Quoiromantic (also known as WTFromantic or Whatromantic) is a romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum.

It is described as:

  • Being unsure if you experience attraction or not
  • Being unable to understand attraction as a concept or feeling
  • Finding the concept of attraction to be inaccessible, inapplicable, nonsensical
  • Being unable to define romantic attraction so unable to say whether or not you experience it
  • Having a hard time distinguishing romantic attraction from other types of attractions, or being unable to distinguish them at all (For example, you can't distinguish romantic feelings from platonic, or you have a hard time distinguishing romantic from sensual feelings)
  • Struggling to find a better term because it is too complicated or because they just don't fit any other term
  • Not experiencing romanticism in a traditional manner

Quoiromantics may differ from gray-aromantics in many ways. While gray-aro individuals are those who fall somewhere along a line in between allromantic & aromantic, quoiromantics may not be on the line at all. Quoiromantic is generally used as a catch-all term for those who fall somewhere in the category of semiromantic or alternatively romantic, but do not better fit into any other label. Still, quoiromantic people can identify as grey-aro as well.

Other terms that are similar are gray/grey-(a)romantic, idemromantic, platoniromantic, quasiromantic, and alterous.